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YOUR BODY, YOUR HEART & YOUR JOURNEY AT THE CENTER
Welcome to this space where your questions, emotions, and wishes are received with warmth. Here you can simply be, feel safe and seen, as you move through pregnancy, birth, and the first days with your baby. As we walk this path together, I’ll gently hold up a mirror to your remind you of the strength, wisdom, and intuition already within you.

"Giving birth is something a woman does in her body, not in her head"
Pam England

Dear Mama,
I am Virginia, a birth doula, breastfeeding councelor & practitioner based in The Hague. I walk alongside mothers and families in both Spanish and English, offering a steady, caring presence.
Pregnancy, Birth, & Postpartum are deeply personal and transformative experiences. Whether you’re hoping to conceive, already expecting, or adjusting to life with your newborn, this is a time for you to feel heard, and connected to both your body and your baby. Because together, you & your baby are the best team.
I'd love to hear your story in a no-binding chat and explore how I may support as you step into this new chapter of motherhood.
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Every family's journey into motherhood is unique. That’s why all of my offerings can be adapted and tailored to your needs.
Any questions? Send me a message and we’ll go through it together.





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Sometimes words aren’t enough to express what the body feels.
They get stuck, living quietly within.
Maybe you don’t need to explain it, just listen to yourself, give yourself time and space.
And when you’re ready, allow it to move through you: dance it, breathe it, or cry it.
Find your own way to give a voice to what lives inside you.
#grief #doulasupport
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A veces las palabras no alcanzan a expresar lo que el cuerpo siente.
Se quedan atascadas, habitando en silencio.
Quizá no necesites explicarlo, solo escucharte, darte tiempo y espacio.
Y cuando lo sientas, permitirte soltarlo: bailarlo, respirarlo o llorarlo.
Buscar tu propia forma de dar voz a eso que vive en ti.
#doulaenespañol #doulainthehague #maternitypoetry](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/684139810_17921985855339298_2484657914398880939_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=104&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=SwGqfd4BwEsQ7kNvwGIV3sF&_nc_oc=Adq5tUw0VwaNfYx9FDGuJayPLBSnnTj84WNO2595f2ZdORzXSJqTwJla1b_T_AXyrDM&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQEBuXoZOuxQ9ia7m-FA6zW6zj1YepPn10hzMFWjWzfLCXjiBfLI1i9Jwi_tFJI9Rn9MtndsKsKM&oh=00_Af4trURBvhuyDSyqjHo0n6zPewybNjzTDRvBCY2I26U6Dw&oe=6A01FDAD)










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Postpartum is not only a recovery, it’s rebirth.
It’s where you meet yourself again, softer, slower, deeper.
What did motherhood teach you about yourself? I will read you in the comments.
#postpartumcare #motherhoodjourney #newmoms #postpartumdoula #doulathehague #doulaenespañol #doulaenholanda
Photo: @alexanderkrivitskiy @danil_motovilov @wrenaylameinberg
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Español:
El posparto no es solo recuperación, es renacer.
Es el lugar donde te vuelves a encontrar, más suave, más lenta, más profunda.
🌿 ¿Qué te enseñó la maternidad sobre ti misma?
#pospartoreal #acompañamientoposparto #douladepostparto](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/572402323_17897777493339298_3157289730479844305_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=VcJnEDy7JjQQ7kNvwFy90S6&_nc_oc=AdrehIm0kWByluDBdYjOeHlAzwbb99ynP4AenXNtr5_RLC6PaKQnJUSQkTloJvQm-E8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHLIhjeqqRow2-9LquS_3RZ0Ywvczz9aepepyOHkp4sDJw4gq5ftb4rkI3gHb4q1LE6krvFsmwA&oh=00_Af68Cp12ZQS0Uy7A3IPpmby83hD-iTpKCQkGZWExO_7mGA&oe=6A01FE0F)
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Birth is not the end of the journey, it’s just the beginning.
It asks everything from you, yet gives you even more in return.
✨ Every birth story deserves to be honored. I would love to read about yours in the comments.👇🏼
Photo: @dylan_hunter_photography @ofilia_skizzenbuch @Cottonbro
#birthsupport #sacredbirth #doulasupport #birthpoetry #doulanl #doulaenespañol #doulathehague #douladenhaag
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El parto es mucho mas que el final de tu embarazo, es el inicio de una transformación.
Te pide todo… pero te devuelve aún más.
✨ Cada historia de nacimiento merece ser honrada. Me encantaria escuchar la tuya.
#partorespetado #douladeparto #nacimientoconsciente #doulaenholanda #latinaenholanda](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/573527916_17897022873339298_6104625856832456312_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=106&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=wE1eQ_jbY1QQ7kNvwE1pBm7&_nc_oc=AdpRqGLzbi1Io1naTm0ZJhZr8Q7CsnvAmLgWZFEhkn5zJye7Tt3_l1dR2Lt9WC7P8K8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQE5puEJVA5nb_A9Mwl4H2c5V0h6kzD96Vjb06bbCCSZWZ_TCY7l2jW91ZSyO_g4v5M-XXf8A7Rr&oh=00_Af6CsAdd7YDx8WCZlAK5lQfu7HdQCwUdt8_b7vL3maqkKQ&oe=6A01E6C6)
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Pregnancy is the in-between.
A place of waiting, wondering, expanding, of learning to trust the unknown.
Any preggos here, tell me, what surprised you most about this chapter?
📸: @andybrambila.photo @bridjett_renae_photography @v._kodra
#pregnancyjourney #momhood #doulasupport #douladenhaag #doulathehague
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El embarazo es ese espacio entre lo que eras y en quien te vas a transformar.
Un tiempo de espera, de expansión y de fe en lo invisible.
🤍 ¿Alguna mama embarazada por aquí? ¿Qué es lo que más te está sorprendiendo en este viaje?
#elviajedelembarazo #acompañamientoemocional #doulaenespañol #doulaenholanda](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/571530210_17896642230339298_4485415914082764916_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=104&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=ufkVAR7R54UQ7kNvwHORra4&_nc_oc=AdoKmSkY02EU87XMQuLW93GZFnXDVJ0v9At1CHWBU9HKbDrmBjrqXraKfMayvTIlJ7g&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGYx07daDaGm89ShaYL2dem2JouMUAeSwmt_j9OUmsymDWFF8IeFq1nWJ_PthN_p7JXlOiVinUh&oh=00_Af4-Iu6w-TGeKiyq_o9usiMNGgQ1f_ja5wG12kTNve4Vig&oe=6A01D667)
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Conception is more than biology, it’s energy, desire, readiness.
Sometimes it’s a spark, a miracle, a whisper of possibility, the moment your soul said yes.
Sometimes it’s a long, quiet wait.
✨ Can you still remember when you first felt it, the knowing?
Share it in comments.
📸 : @susan.wilkinson.photography
#motherhoodjourney #sacredbeginnings #pregnancysupport #doulaenespanol, #douladenhaag #doulathehague
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Antes de que hubiera un latido, hubo una intención.
La concepción no es solo el inicio de la vida, un milagro, una posibilidad, el momento en que todo tu ser se alinea y dice sí.
✨ ¿Recuerdas cuándo lo sentiste por primera vez?
#madresenpaisesbajos #mamamigrante #madreshispanasnl #mamaenholanda
#maternidadconsciente #embarazoyalma #doulasupport](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/568891465_17895790209339298_8756669908220989488_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=101&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=OrTNW5zdaeAQ7kNvwHv3aJl&_nc_oc=Adq1-AUo4ExlK9aXro0MQtWWoIjEW2pZjb43yzDRP0pSdsGbykZSO94im-M8CSq1ZSs&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGpslOHSeK4ZBqYJ9iWHUnhEL5Fgqf0Az-Jdbvre4AyRPEF1yGJL8jnrBTqlYPm3u3he-sbwO19&oh=00_Af6-wt4rKkCUHVX85_eWG9_EYIyyi1ilAm-DJ22qbwMSKQ&oe=6A020634)

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Me habita lo que florece en silencio.
Lo que echa raíces sin pedir permiso.
“Zugan, Nigan, Gugan. Beti aske zure bidean”
(En ti, en mi, en nosotros. Siempre libres en vuestro camino) - Ura @kat_lumen
#15deoctubre #perdidagestacional #doulaenespañol #acompamientorespetuoso #dueloperinaral #duelogestacional
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I am inhabited by what blooms in silence.
By what grows roots without asking permission.
In me, in you, in us.
Always free on your path. -Ura Kar Lumen
#october15 #pregnancyloss #pregnancylossawareness #1in4 #1in4pregnanciesendinloss #doulasupportedbirth #doulaenespañol #douladenhaag](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/564775216_17895352968339298_5865062888060772934_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=eIREVY-JU3cQ7kNvwFLFcT7&_nc_oc=Ado60W-AMWe6aVR6b0jNe4r7IQTweHHNKme34lKfzgSkFwaTBNxk3XGz9bsOe61iVmg&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHXpiOAw6nHJ9BH_lZVAL8PTbgJ2iWnIdKTKea7ye0ZNZdpZxA_thEvCJNgmthSPffU1he9ySCO&oh=00_Af4sCFnOFBYKgOifk0dr3qR_ppnSAktX5R1Db1PQ0EDrDw&oe=6A020047)


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Stationery has always been one of my little weaknesses ✨. I just can’t resist all the pens and notebooks lined up by size and color, it makes my heart so happy!
Last summer, I bought some beautiful papers and envelopes to share with the women I accompany, to inspire them to create their own positive affirmations. When I walk alongside you as a doula, I usually suggest a few, but what truly matters to me is that you are the one who writes, chooses, and decides which words resonate with your journey.
Back then, I only bought 7 sets, thinking it would take me a long time to use them, that I would still have plenty left by Christmas. I didn’t imagine how many women I would be sharing with.
But my wise sister told me: “Buy more. Don’t be the one to set your own limits.”
And here I am, almost a year after starting this path of serving beautiful mamas in the Netherlands, ready to go back to that little shop and buy more paper and envelopes filled with magic ✨
Inspirada por la preciosidad de afirmaciones positivas que preparo @pishella para su parto.
#positiveaffirmation #doulasuport #doulathehague #doulaenespañol #birthsupport #conciouspregnancy #pregnancysupport
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Las papelerías son una de mis debilidades ✨. El verano pasado compré unos papeles y sobres preciosos para inspirar a las mujeres que acompaño a escribir sus propias frases positivas.
Solo cogí 7, pensando que me durarían hasta Navidad… pero mi sabia hermana me dijo: “Compra más. No seas tú quien te pongas los límites.”
Hoy, casi un año después de comenzar este camino junto a tantas mamás bonitas en Holanda, me doy cuenta de cuánta magia hemos compartido… y de que necesito volver a por más papeles ✨💕.](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/555434996_17893524411339298_5420796473168691996_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0FST1VTRUxfSVRFTS5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=6qRXy32BgEMQ7kNvwFQgUwD&_nc_oc=Adrg35szn6ZmWrKKCaJxjvXUmvKKm3d_MTXy5JBOkK8VWgRe4dBC2Q6XAO3_vrefhfc&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGx2bbMIZB7LqRPedouEfV91mSiMlie6aUFFkBvzUkY7tuDh9kVxhVkj9_FM9uIVoF6sdc6AIpQ&oh=00_Af5MJz0V--G8ITU7gMGt3gIl9GWCosAFu8_cZTQi8JSSMA&oe=6A01D805)
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Parir no es protocolario.
No cabe en una caja.
Parir es un acto de amor,
es revolucionario!
Hagamos de la ternura nuestra revolucion!
Gracias Yuli @yu_partera por recordarmelo. Somos 5, seremos 30, y muchas, muchas mas. 🙏 @nicola_jana @iam_yourdoula
#doulaenespañol #doulasupport #douladenhaag #acompañamientocontinuo #parteriatradicional #parterasdelmundo #abuelas #parteriacolombia #parteriaconamor
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Birthing isn’t about protocols.
It can’t be boxed in.
It’s a revolutionary act.
Let’s make tenderness our revolution.](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/551592077_17892758913339298_14258363327542884_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=B-JCWPuevysQ7kNvwGWCoqS&_nc_oc=Ado3N8Iu3Ple5ezhL5hxK_TAqPH_ttQoXOehw7dQ_8-NUlbEU3l-AimfYSEAg3crD5g&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=R6ESTDApE5bHDuxcYqqBBQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQEtKYS_3ozlrPtNCc3ncuXQ5R9vWirKGcn7ft50n_Kb4aFCcs-mmQWCEYBbYpQTcEjg7-4zktnV&oh=00_Af6N-v2OPjhkWQGiQtkA0Xi0tlqSHPxP_VpwCOOucTQsCw&oe=6A01D58C)